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Time For a Mental Toothbrushing

Sunday, November 20th, 2011

Annually, around this time of year, I have always taken time to “mentally” sort things out. Over time, I have affectionately referred to this exercise as a “mental” toothbrushing. I have found the exercise so helpful that in addition to this usual year-end “brushing” I try to also do several “brushings” throughout the year. Some of you may do something similar (at least I hope so). For those of you who don’t, well you’re cheating yourself, your business/career and most importantly your family of an excellent opportunity to make things better. Unless of course, your one of those rare folks who isn’t happy unless they are complaining about something. If you are, then stop reading now and go bash someone or something on your “facebook” account.

So with that as background, let me share with you three important things you need to be thinking about as you brush your “grey matter”. Now there are other important issues but for now, I just want you to think about these. Why? Well, because they go beyond what you do and focus on who you are and who you can be. (more…)

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Perseverance – Your Key To Success

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

Perseverance Means Never Giving Up

Perseverance means never quitting. As a leadership keynote speaker, I try to make this point as many times as I can to my audiences when I talk about these critical success principles. There are many true stories about people who have demonstrated this trait.  Thomas Edison inventing the light bulb, or Lance Armstrong fighting cancer and winning the “Tour de France” for the sixth consecutive time. The fact is, they would not allow themselves to give up. They, by their actions, demonstrated that they knew how to “Be Fearless, Step Up  and Play Big”.  And, the “act” of not giving up has to be practiced and developed into a habit.  In addition, the concept of perseverance and never giving up is often surfaced when working with my coaching clients, guiding them through the many challenges they face. 

We all have a dream or a goal that we would like to accomplish. Often times the difference between accomplishing the goal or not is how strong your belief is to overcome the  obstacles that you will face. Have you ever thought about why some people never reach their personal or business goals? Sometimes there are good reasons that are beyond their control. Often, howver,  it is because they lacked perseverance. The fact is, very few people get it right the first time, or the second or even the third time. The difference is that they learn from their past mistakes and adjust their approach going forward. In other, words, they don’t give up. They live with the belief that in life, there are no mistakes, just a variety of learning experiences.

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See Spot Run – Effective Leaders Know How to Keep it Simple!

Tuesday, September 7th, 2010


Nothing is ever really as hard as it first appears to be. I have often joked that there is something in our genetic make-up that kicks in each morning that tell us “look for something real easy and then try to make it harder than it needs to be”.

The fact is, we sometimes tend to make things – like making business decisions, harder or more complicated than they need to be. Why? Because we do. We over-think the situation and loose site of the root cause and the best solution. I have found in my real world experiences, that when a business leader does this, they not only hurt their business but their team as well. When you don’t keep it simple, you damage your ability to build trust with your team and boost their performance.  When working with clients as their executive business coach, getting through this barrier can be challenging until they resolve to let go of this damaging habit.

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